How to masturbate with a pillow?

A faithful ally of sleep, the pillow is not only useful when you are in the arms of Morpheus. For decades, its use as an object of masturbation has been part of the broad spectrum of sexual practices . This masturbation technique is very common among women, especially from adolescence.

Still taboo, masturbation with a pillow is also effective for finding sexual pleasure and even reaching orgasm . How to please yourself with this form of masturbation? What are the different techniques for finding orgasm with a pillow ?

No taboos here, we explain everything to you. ✌️

The benefits of humping

• No need to undress
• You can do this with many objects
• Can be practiced alone or in pairs

The humping

Humping , or " dry humping", comes from the English verb to hump which commonly means "to kiss". This expression was originally used to characterize a dog rubbing against a human leg. The dry refers to the absence of fluids during this exercise.

Without a real equivalent in French, this expression is called dry friction or frotti-frotta. Humping generally consists of rubbing one's private parts against an inert object or a person.

To do it alone, you just have to masturbate, without your hands, but with any object (cushion, chair, stair railing, etc.). On the other hand, if you want to do it as a couple, you have to rub your sexes against each other without direct contact .

You can also rub your penis against your partner's body, always keeping an item of clothing on to avoid direct contact.

The dominance of heterosexuality in our societies wrongly leads to certain practices such as masturbation with a pillow being considered only as foreplay, when in fact they can provide pleasure, even orgasm.

The first advantage of humping is that it doesn't require you to undress. The other advantage is that it can prevent you from contracting STIs or other sexually transmitted diseases, as long as your mucous membranes don't come into contact.

Its effectiveness depends on the quality of your garment:

• The thicker the fabric, the less effective it would be,
• The thinner and more slippery it is, the more pleasure you will get.

This female masturbation technique is common among young girls who are discovering their bodies.

Several studies show that girls discover masturbation and its pleasures by masturbating with a cushion or other objects. This technique is not unknown to men either. The friction and pressure exerted during this practice against the glans or clitoris provide pleasure in another way.

Humping can become risky when the friction is intense or excessive, especially in men. It can cause burns and sometimes abscesses. Even if the risk is lower in women, you still need to be careful. The clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings that can be damaged in the event of strong or prolonged friction.

Abusing this technique only to find orgasm can become a handicap when it comes to enjoying yourself by other means. Indeed, using this technique only will make you develop orgasmic reflexes specific to this technique.

Your orgasmic reflexes depend on your favorite sexual positions and the way you practice humping. These positions and this way of masturbating may not necessarily be obvious to achieve with other sexual practices.

Please note that non-consensual humping can be considered sexual harassment. It is categorized as frotteurism.

How to use a pillow to please yourself?

Sexual pleasure is relative and is a factor of each person's body and fantasies. So, everyone knows how to get pleasure using a pillow. That is why there are several techniques to get pleasure with a pillow.

It's very simple, here are a few:

• Lie on your back
• Fold the pillow in half between your thighs.
• Rub your clitoris against the folded cushion, tucked securely between your thighs.

This is the great classic of female masturbation . To increase the pleasure, you can even insert a vibrator into the fold 😏

Another masturbation technique involving the pillow is called the stack:

• Stack several pillows,
• Sit on it and rub your penis against this pile.

This creates more density and cushioning. You can vary the positions: straddle the pile, sit with your feet together or even kneel on the pile.

You can also lie on your side. Then, you put the pillow flat between your thighs so that you hold the ends on either side of your penis. You then rub the pillow against your penis while moving your pelvis . You increase the pressure as the clitoris swells with blood and the pleasure increases.

To reach orgasm even more easily, you can try it with a full bladder. This also exerts pressure on your penis from the inside. This way, orgasm is reached more quickly. Don't panic, you won't urinate on your pillow.

You can vary the types of pillows according to the shape, ergonomics and quality with each of the techniques to masturbate. This allows you to experiment even more in depth with masturbation with cushion .

Apart from all its techniques, the pillow also remains an essential support during several sexual practices. Indeed, the pillow is used to lift you during cunnilingus or during missionary for maximum penetration!

It also serves as a shock absorber against muscle fatigue during practices such as doggy style or when you make love while pregnant. To broaden your range of possibilities, you can test other masturbation techniques in other positions, with other means.

How to masturbate using pillow alternatives?

There are many other alternatives available to you to masturbate and reach orgasm. For example, you can use your fingers to caress your clitoris until you feel pleasure. You can use a chair, the shower head or a vibrator to masturbate.

How to masturbate with a chair? 🪑

Have you thought about your chair ? Yes, it can perfectly promote a pleasant "masturbation" session!

You can use the edges of a chair or the flat part to masturbate with or without clothes. To use the flat part, simply sit with your legs together or astride the chair. This way, your penis is in contact with the chair.

Then, you make progressive back and forth movements while rubbing your clitoris against the chair at a pace that suits you. Do the same in the case of using the edges. But, here, you must necessarily straddle the chair to maximize the contact of your sex with the edge. Depending on what excites you, you can completely straddle the edge or position it from the back or from the front against your clitoris. However, it is advisable to choose a smooth or well-polished chair to facilitate sliding and also to avoid any irritation.

How to use fingers as a means of masturbation?

There are a myriad of techniques for solo pleasure , but only fingers are accessible to us for life and in all weathers. ✌️

Mastering your body is essential to quickly reach orgasm. This way, you are able to know what gives you pleasure. The clitoris prefers moisture, so it is not recommended to caress it directly with a dry finger.

The clitoris is very sensitive, so it is important to be gentle when caressing it. You must go slowly and start with foreplay. This involves caressing the contours of your sex, your vagina, your breasts , your body gradually in order to increase the excitement.

The clitoris swells with blood and becomes more erogenous as the excitement intensifies. To avoid caressing the clitoris with a dry hand, you can use lubricant such as the Puissante lubricating intimate gel or a little water. You can also wait until the cyprine secretes.

Depending on what suits you, you can perform light caresses that gradually become rhythmic and faster. You can also apply strong pressure as you wish. Some women prefer to use the palms of their hands, others use one finger, then two or even more. 🖐

At the same time, instead of pressure, you can tap the clitoris and then accelerate according to your excitement. Vary the caress between clockwise and counterclockwise to increase the excitement. In all cases, accelerating accentuates the pleasure and leads you to an orgasm.

You can also excite the clitoris by caressing the G-spot from inside the vagina . This part of the vagina is erogenous with thin membranes that facilitate access to the G-spot. To start, slide a still-wet finger two centimeters on the anterior surface of the pubis.

Lightly stroke, feel or scratch the membrane of your penis to notice the difference. To increase the orgasm, you can use your second hand at the same time and caress the clitoris or breasts at the same time .

How to masturbate with the shower head? 🚿

The shower is an intimate and privileged place where we find ourselves. Often associated with relaxation and self-care, it is an ideal place to touch ourselves and give ourselves pleasure.

The jet of water from the shower head proves to be a great provider of orgasms. Its contact with your clit can be a source of intense pleasure. The progressive wave of sensations rises as you move your hand to the rhythm of your own pleasure.

This practice offers several varieties. Your pleasure varies according to:

• heat: warm, hot or cold water;
• pressure: strong, gentle or jerky;
• the distance between the knob and your penis;
• position: standing, sitting, lying in the bathtub.

Direct the shower jet towards your vulva and test the pressure and temperature . 🚿

Adjust according to your pleasure and let the water stimulate you and do its pressure work.

For more benefits, you can also play around with moving the knob closer and further away from your clitoris to vary the sensations of the massage!

How to masturbate with a vibrator?

A sex toy , whether it is a vibrator, dildo or other, is specially designed to provide pleasure. Some are aimed more at stimulating the G-spot inside the vagina, while others target the clitoris .

There are a lot of vibrators out there, but ours are especially recommended. We recommend: the Coco vibrator and the Toupie massager vibrator .

Our Coco vibrator has two parts: a suction part and a vibrating part. The vibrating part can be used to caress your vulva or other erogenous zones (breasts, lips, etc.). It can also be used for penetration to caress the inside of the vagina, especially the G-spot.

The suction part is non-penetrating. It emits pressure waves and is used for sucking the clitoris or breasts.

Equipped with 10 modes for each function, including 7 intensity levels and 3 random modes, Coco can bend to adapt to your body shape and penetrate or not according to your needs. This offers you several sensations and various intensities of caresses.

A clitoral simulator may be suitable for you if you want to stimulate your clitoris on its external part. Among vibrators, the clitoral stimulator is the one that is much more popular with women.

Our Toupie vibrator, with its shape, is ideal for allowing you to explore all the erogenous zones of your body . It is easy to hold and handle with its ten intensity levels. You also have the possibility of combining the Coco and Toupie vibrators for unprecedented orgasms throughout your being.

We recommend using lubricant ! By applying lubricant during your sexual intercourse, whether alone or with others, with or without penetration , the pleasure will be considerably increased! 😅