Why have a vibrator?
The desire to explore one's body, to venture into the discovery of new pleasures, to learn to touch oneself, to love oneself... The reasons that push many people to buy their first vibrator can be diverse and varied. Often, there is a hesitation, the fear that a high-tech object can give us pleasure (or is it a fear of the unknown?). However, acquiring a vibrator can help on many points.
Take the plunge 👟
The entire Puissante team was present at the Delta Festival to talk about Coco, the brand... When we talk about sexuality, the topics of conversation feed on themselves. Between the "Incredible!", the "I need one!" or the laughter at the sight of our stand, it was interesting to see the different visions that the people present had of vibrators. "I don't need that" (talking about Coco), is one of the remarks we were entitled to. The acquisition of a Coco or any other vibrator is not in fact a need. It is more a new thing, different, and that's what's nice! It's as if our whole life, we ate dishes from the same origin, and then, suddenly we taste something completely different. 😋 And let's not lie to ourselves, any human, whatever their knowledge of the body or other, cannot reproduce vibration or "suction" . It's simply impossible. So in fact it's just that there is something completely different, whether we like it or not, which provides sensations that cannot be found otherwise, which has no side effects except the glow, the conf' and a feeling of total well-being. It can still be very nice to test, right?!
Especially since many women have taken time to discover their own bodies. Nota bene 📝: the clitoris is the organ dedicated solely to pleasure. Composed of a glans on its external part and branches internally, our best friend is composed of at least 8,000 nerve endings. Unknown to the battalion during sex education sessions at school and in mainstream pornography , it is the great forgotten part of sexual intercourse for many. Yes, to know how to stimulate your clitoris, you would first have to know about its existence. 😉
However, many people claim to have discovered this organ while surfing social networks like Twitter or Instagram. "But ma'am, I can't masturbate, I don't have a penis, it's a boy thing" a schoolteacher once heard.
The first rule of masturbation is to talk about it! 💬 Taboos related to sexuality make teenagers, young women and adults feel guilty and prevent them from enjoying themselves alone . The first little rub on the pillow , as naturally as it comes, is quickly interrupted by shame. When discovering the clitoris thanks to Twitter, questions come between friends: "yeah I saw that too, but it doesn't work, it doesn't do anything to me" "me neither" "the female orgasm is just a legend" "I give up" "maybe I'm vaginal and not clitoral". These last terms give us chills. No woman is either vaginal or clitoral, since female pleasure and orgasms are triggered by the stimulation of the clitoris internally and/or externally! Differentiating the two is to support Freud's theory which pushes to say that only so-called "vaginal" women would be "mature".
In the shower: discover the massage mode . Wow. We don't care about prohibitions, we quickly become addicted to this shower head. But it uses way too much water; how to replace it?? Choosing a clitoral stimulator is a first step, and those allowing clitoral suction are the best possible choice in order to titillate the clitoris with gentleness and intensity at the same time. Switching from the shower head to an object can be quite scary, especially at the moment T: we find ourselves with a sex toy in our hands and then... We don't know what we're going to do with it, yeah it's a little scary. The first moments are surprising, disturbing but pleasant. Stop. Let's start again. Hop, it's cool. Try again. WOW wow. 🤩 We never get tired of it.
Test it and enjoy it. 😉
Self love, self confidence, sexual esteem, well-being; why masturbation makes women powerful
A powerful woman means many things. We immediately think of inspiring and famous women. But ultimately, the powerful woman is you. You, who dare to be who you are, who get up every morning with your desires, your ambitions, your obligations. It's this young mother who has just given birth, this lady who is going back to school at 50, the one who is 70 and who has her past, her story, it's this entrepreneur, it's a single woman, a woman in a relationship, married, a mother, alone. All women are powerful, but they are not all aware of it.
Loving yourself is essential to living well. Self-esteem is what we send back to others, it is the way in which others will appreciate us. Man's first desire, although unconscious, is to be loved by others. And that is also how we forget ourselves too easily. Linking masturbation to self-esteem has a simple reason; we make love to ourselves, we love ourselves. What is more beautiful on earth than love? A woman, who has never masturbated in thirty years of life, buys herself a vibrator because she does not know how her body works. The opinions we receive every day speak for themselves, here is an example:
"I am very pleasantly surprised by the Coco by Puissante. I am learning more about my body and allowing myself moments of pleasure that belong only to me. I feel soothed and powerful after use. I gain self-confidence and pleasure is guaranteed!!! I love it and I recommend it!"
Taking time for yourself, knowing yourself, discovering yourself allows you to feel a deep well-being with yourself. Being comfortable with yourself is the first step to being comfortable in everyday life, professionally, personally… Feeling good about yourself means having confidence, becoming a self-confident person, knowing what you want, in bed as in life. Because yes, knowing your body alone also means being able to have fun as a duo or more. It also means learning to say NO, to know your own limits, to take care of yourself.
Discover new sensations
If you are in a relationship, nothing prevents you from masturbating ! Solo masturbation when we dedicate our intimacy to a single person can be quite taboo within couples. In the same way as if you were alone, taking time for yourself by having a partner is very important to know your pleasures. These evolve throughout your life! Continuing to conquer your sensations is essential for you, and can be beneficial for your sex life as a couple ! It will indeed be easier for you to indicate to your partner what can please you.
And a vibrator fits perfectly into your relationship with a partner ! While many men see vibrators as “competition,” this is not the case; a vibrator is more of a friend, a new partner to use alone or with a partner (or more)! Using it allows you to blossom and discover new things!
"It was so cool, I tested it alone and then with my boyfriend. Well, actually with my boyfriend it was strange, I felt like he wasn't super comfortable, like there were three of us! 😅 But after getting to know Coco it was great!"
"For my part, I am very happy to have offered this sex toy to my wife. It allows her to have fun when I am not there and to please herself whenever she wants.
What I find very important in my opinion because in the "hypocrisy of men", women are not supposed to please themselves! However, every man masturbates... Why shouldn't women have the right to please themselves without us?!
Plus, for two, this sex toy is just magical! It accompanies our lovemaking to perfection 🔥
Spooning, doggy style or simply missionary, it adapts to each of our positions.
I am very happy for Madame that she has a new toy that she can use with me or without me. I find pleasure in knowing that I please her! In my opinion, Coco represents what Love is!
And if you decide to get a Coco, even men can enjoy it!
"Hello everyone. I subscribed, bought, received and tried "coco", with great happiness and subtle pleasure! I did it of course for the pleasure of my wife, who prefers that I use it on her. Not only is this sex toy a marvel of presentation, of a rare elegance in this field, very easy to use, but also and above all endowed with remarkable efficiency! It is a great joy to own it and to take full advantage of it. I used it on myself (glans and frenulum of the penis) and I discovered unsuspected pleasures... Men can therefore also enjoy it..."
There may be some apprehension about trying Coco as a couple and that's normal. It's easy to tell yourself that if you need a vibrator in your relationship , it's because something is wrong, that you're not enough for yourself, or not anymore. Or on the contrary, that you're going to be one of those "crazy" people on a sexual level (who, of course, aren't!). In short, you may have several things that come to mind and that's normal. The idea is to try to see it differently.
Ultimately it's just an extra that we try once to see. It's like testing a new recipe, a new dish, a new way to get to work that allows us to (re)discover a new way of making love.
Because there are a thousand and one ways to feel good as a couple, integrating Coco is just one more, and not the least!
If you want to integrate a vibrator into your life as a couple, the first rule is to talk about it with your partner! Share your desire with him before buying because communication is always the pillar of all your intimate relationships. 🙌 If you buy a vibrator intended for your intimate relationships with your partner without talking about it beforehand, it can be tricky… Present the vibrator as a game ! Maybe he/she was already thinking about it or likes the idea! If he/she is reluctant, do not try to convince him/her, because consent is the most important thing to respect and desire is not negotiable! Simply explain to him/her why you want to acquire this type of object, what would be the benefits for your couple of integrating a vibrator into your intimate relationships. Remember that an object will never replace a human; a vibrator is a friend, a game and is very far from competing or being the enemy of anyone. 🤝
Choosing your first vibrator
There are thousands and hundreds of sex toys. Choosing your first vibrator can be a lot of doubt and hesitation.
At Puissante, we have created Coco , which will allow you to perform internal and external stimulation according to your desires and preferences. Equipped with ten modes for each function, it bends as you wish to adapt to your morphology and be penetrating or not. It has been specially designed to be a first sex toy since its different intensities and modes will help you take your time and discover what really pleases you.
Whatever vibrator you choose, assume that the price of a sex toy between 10 and 30 euros will certainly do the trick for your pleasure… But will surely ruin your health! ⚠️ Taking care of your vulva is very important in everyday life and it is unfortunately too common to use harmful products on a daily basis. "Colored vibrators are trendy. But they can quickly turn into a joke: especially when it is apple green and it fades. A grass-colored crotch for a week is not great." ( testimony taken from this article ) A sex toy made of medical silicone is the safest possible. This is also why Coco is made of this material! Designed with the support of experts and our community, its price is 119 euros, to have fun with complete confidence and safety. ❤️ Two models are available: pink or blue! Waterproof, you can use it in your bath or shower, but also and above all clean it as carefully as possible ! 🧼
Rechargeable, after plugging it in for 1 hour for 2 hours of battery life, take the time to get to know your vibrator. Move the vibrations over your erogenous parts, discover, excite yourself gently, then activate the suction, and likewise, move it over your body.
We recommend using it with lubricant ! By using lubricant during your sexual intercourse, whether alone or with others, the pleasure is clearly intensified, penetration or not! A water-based lubricant is the best product to adapt to all your sexual intercourse without any risks! 💧
