Astrological sign, origins, level of education, Harry Potter houses, we have a multitude of reading grids that help us to better understand ourselves and define ourselves in relation to others. The intimate sphere is not left out! Knowing your sexual personality allows you to better identify your sexual expectations and recognize your pleasures , but also to be able to identify your partner's desires. Sexual personalities are like a language that allows us to reveal our erotic identity . This diagram helps to explain to our partner what stimulates us, the obstacles we may encounter in our sexual life, and the way we feel our pleasure. It's a bit like a notice on your pleasure if you will .

The 5 types according to Jaya Ma

American sexologist Jaiya Ma created a test to know the sexual personality that she called Erotic Blueprint . Based on her observations, she classified each person's behavior into 5 main categories that can be discovered through this quiz . 

Sensual
You find an importance of the senses and the atmosphere . You get excited when your senses are awakened . Candles, an immersive playlist and caresses in the right places, here you are heading towards seventh heaven.
To test : a mask to increase the other senses. 🕯️

Energetic
You seek thrills and excitement . You get a kick out of raising the temperature . Anticipation is your thing. Sensitive to energy, just the prospect of a kiss can be enough to set you on fire.

To try : lengthen your breath during your solo or couple moments . 🔥

Sexual
Straightforward, simple and effective, you love sex. Your type particularly enjoys nudity, genitals and the act itself.

To try : watch ethical porn videos . 📱

Kink
Mystery and seduction game. This personality type is characterized by an attraction to BDSM practices . For those who identify with this type, the idea of ​​venturing into territories considered forbidden or out of the norm can be extremely exciting.

To try : Bondage. 🧶

Metamorph
You have a force of adaptability and flexibility in tastes and pleasures. You adapt to all erotic atmospheres . Ideal partner of other types, you become a mirror to increase the pleasure of the other as much as yours. 🦎

To test : collect accessories to vary the pleasures.

How to understand your sexual personality?

Observe yourself

The best way to know what you really like is to try. Try it together, yes, but not only!

It's very important to know what you like alone, and what's better than taking the time to give yourself pleasure alone for that?

At Puissante, we have the Toupie . It is the accessory for self-discovery and slow self-love!

This is a completely different toy from our beloved Coco: it is designed to build excitement step by step , with an emphasis on sensation rather than performance. The goal is not to reach an orgasm quickly, but to deeply feel the love that is given to each other and the experience that unfolds. 🙌

Thanks to its small size, softness and different vibration levels, it is recommended as a first toy for beginners who want to get started gently.

Consult a sexologist

With his or her expertise, he or she can provide a safe and non-judgmental space to explore your desires and preferences . The pro helps you identify and understand the erotic patterns that inhabit you.

Exploring your preferences by talking to a trained outsider is a great way to then articulate them clearly for your partner. 💬

The sexologist will provide you with personalized advice and appropriate tools. He or she can even help you overcome any blockages related to trauma or difficulties.

Other tests to discover yourself

Jaya's test is far from being the only tool to look into your sexual preferences. Hers remains one of the most known and used, but nothing prevents you from turning to other reading grids.

Depending on your beliefs, your sensitivity to spirituality, philosophy or rather rationalism, you will find many ways to discover the aspects of your personality. ✨

Among the many online tests, you can for example have fun with the Psychologies or the Étudiant tests.

The importance of communication

Communication plays a central role in discovering one's sexual personality. By openly sharing one's desires, fantasies, and limits with one's partner, one opens up a space of trust and intimacy conducive to safe sexual exploration. 🤍

To approach this delicate subject in a constructive and positive manner, it is important to adopt effective strategies .

This may include:

• choosing the right time and place to chat
• use respectful, non-accusatory language
• actively listen to your partner's responses
• encourage open and taboo-free communication

Understanding each other's needs and desires is the key to strengthening the connection between two people and creating more enjoyable experiences .

Beyond Personality Tests

Of course, these tests are not to be taken literally. They have no real scientific basis outside of the observations of the person who created them. These categories are only indications that can help you understand yourself . 🪞

It's a fun reading grid, but sexuality is a fluid and multifaceted subject. There are no rules!

These types should not be understood as rigid labels, but rather as tools to enrich our knowledge of ourselves and our partners. To continue the exploration, we invite you to discover our 4 favorite tools to know yourself better. 😘