4 misconceptions about anal orgasm

Does anal orgasm really exist?

Yes, like the clitoris, anal orgasm is not a myth!

Both men and women can enjoy anal stimulation. In men, the prostate area or P-spot is the nerve center that can trigger ecstasy. Since the anus is an area made up of highly vascularized and innervated tissues, its stimulation can cause a lot of pleasure up to orgasm.

During stimulation, the pelvic muscles contract with pleasure. These delicious waves spread throughout the genital areas, especially if the clitoris is stimulated at the same time.

The rectum has the ability to "suck" inserted objects due to its muscular structure and internal pressure. Due to the suction and this structure of the rectum, inserted objects can sometimes be difficult to remove. It is recommended to use sex toys with a flared base (such as a butt plug) to prevent them from being fully absorbed.

Anal dilation is the process by which the anal sphincter muscles and anal canal relax and widen to allow the insertion of fingers, toys, or penises. Gentle, gradual stimulation of the anus, through massage or the insertion of small objects, helps relax the sphincter muscles. Patience is key, and never force.

Misconceptions about anal orgasm

1. “Anal orgasm is rare and difficult to achieve”

The anus is made up of many nerve endings, which makes its stimulation very pleasant and therefore increases your arousal. To facilitate the achievement of anal orgasm, it is advisable to stimulate the anus and the clitoris simultaneously.

This does not mean, however, that anal stimulation alone cannot be enough to achieve orgasm.

2. “It’s painful and uncomfortable”

Pain during anal stimulation usually occurs when there is not enough lubricant or if the muscles are tight. It is essential to go slowly, lubricate the area, and stimulate it with your fingers or tongue to relax the muscles.

If the pain persists, we recommend that you stop penetration, resume later or relax the anus by stimulating other erogenous parts of the body (breasts, thighs, clitoris, neck).

3. “It’s dirty and dangerous for your health”

The first thing people think of when they think of anal sex is that the anus is primarily an organ for eliminating stool. Associating pleasure with bowel movements can be tricky. It is understandable that there may be feelings of disgust or discomfort associated with this area of ​​the body.

However, the anus is also an erogenous zone rich in nerve endings, a region with immense potential for pleasure when stimulated correctly.

Anal sex can be dirty and dangerous to health if initiated without precautions.

It only takes a few little touches to make sure everything goes smoothly. You'll find all our best tips in the next section.

4. “It’s not for everyone”

When we think of anal penetration, we often mistakenly associate it with sex between homosexual men. However, this practice is just as valid for men as it is for women.

Although men have a G-spot there, women can also get a lot of pleasure from it.

Our best tips for achieving anal orgasm

Take it easy

Before you start, take the time to talk with your partner about your expectations, your limits and your concerns.

Once the moment has arrived, also take the time to relax first and then build up desire. Relaxation and excitement are the two most important factors for the sphincter to open and make way for pleasure. Why not spend a moment before embarking on a full-body massage that becomes more and more intimate. Start with the back, skull and neck before gently moving down to the hips then the buttocks, sex, vagina, clitoris and then finish around the anus.

Anal penetration is very different than its vaginal counterpart. It requires constant, but light pressure on the anus. The important thing is to listen to your sensations and trust your body.

Go at your own pace, don't feel like you have to get it right the first time.

Don't skimp on the lube

Unlike the vagina, the anal area does not lubricate itself naturally. It needs a little help to take advantage of it.

Our advice: use a mild water-based lubricant for your intimate area. They are super easy to clean and are compatible with vibrators as well as condoms. Our clean formula with lily extract and aloe vera is perfect for all your explorations.

Don't hesitate to reapply lubricant during sexual practice to maintain good glide and avoid unpleasant friction.

Try the experience again

It's completely normal to not get it right the first time. Like any new exploration, understanding and taming your body can take time.

Repeat the experiment regularly to familiarize yourself with the sensations and find what you like.

Protect yourself

STIs are just as easily transmitted through the anus as through the vagina, so it is recommended to use a condom to protect yourself from any danger.

Condoms remain the best solution to reduce the risk of transmission of sexually transmitted infections. They also protect against bacterial infections.

Be careful not to switch from anal to vaginal penetration without changing condoms. If you switch from anal to vaginal or oral penetration, change condoms to avoid cross-contamination.

Do an enema

A light enema can be done with warm water to feel cleaner and more comfortable. But avoid using irritating solutions or doing it too frequently.

Limit enemas to special occasions to avoid disrupting the natural intestinal flora and causing irritation.

Our bonus tips to promote an anal orgasm

Exploration of the body
For a woman, knowing her own body and its erogenous zones is essential. Self-exploration with fingers or vibrators allows you to discover what gives you pleasure before having sex with a partner.

You can use our Chouchou, which has 2 separate vibrating parts. Start using it on the outer area of ​​the anus, then little by little, start inserting it.

Relaxation and preparation
Relaxing your anal muscles is crucial to avoid pain. Take time to relax with massages or warm baths before starting anal stimulation for even more pleasure.

Diversity of stimuli
Alternating between different forms of stimulation, such as anal penetration with fingers or vibrators and internal or external clitoral stimulation, can increase the chances of reaching orgasm more easily.

Diversify positions
Positions like spooning or lying on your back with your legs raised can provide more comfortable access and control over the depth and pace of penetration.

Progress slowly
Start with light caresses and penetrations to allow the body to get used to the sensations. Gradually increase the intensity according to your body's comfort and reactions.

Once the object is inserted, maintain constant pressure. This allows the muscles to relax around the object. Avoid sudden or rapid movements that could cause discomfort or injury or cause the anus to contract.

You now have all the cards in hand to achieve anal orgasm! Remember to take your time, never force it, and let yourself go.