9 sex gift ideas to (give yourself) pleasure at Christmas
Whether it's for Christmas, Valentine's Day or a birthday, every celebration can be a great opportunity to give your partner a treat . To help you find the rare gem that will please every time , we have found around ten sex and erotic gift ideas that invite you to take back control of your pleasure and well-being . A selection of products and experiences for women who proudly carry the values of Puissante. And if you are at the stage of creating your list for Santa, who knows, you might find some inspiration for your wishlist!
1. An erotic book
When we think of a naughty gift, we often think of lace lingerie, sexy games or a mug with a well-known slogan.
What if we redefine the image of the couple's present a little? 😉
Giving an erotic book is a refined, subtle and original way to please the one who makes us melt. There is a wide selection of works, from the most general ones like a collection of erotic poetry to the most specific ones like shibari guides or comics related to particular kinks.
Giving an erotic book is also opening the door to an intimate and shared exploration of desires. By diving into these stories, we invite the other to discover new fantasies, to dream and even to dare to talk about them. 🙌
These readings can serve as a springboard to address sometimes taboo subjects in the couple , while nourishing the common erotic imagination. It is a gift that allows room for curiosity and openness , while awakening enriching discussions on what really excites us, in a fun and friendly setting.
To guide your search, we have selected some ideas for works right here . 📚
2. A clitoral stimulator
If you are looking for a sex gift to please the woman in your life, we advise you without hesitation to turn to a vibrator and not just any vibrator.
A clitoral stimulator, whether it vibrates or has air pulsation technology , is THE jewel that will hit the mark . Yes, for women, it is generally easier to increase excitement and reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation. 🔥
A vibrator dedicated to this area will allow your partner to explore their pleasure solo , to seize their desires but also to share intense moments with you. The clitoral vibrator fits perfectly into love games for two , because it complements penetration or anal stimulation wonderfully.
Our best-seller Coco combines the best of vibrators by offering double stimulation . It adapts to all desires with a head dedicated to suction and another vibrating one that can be used for penetration. It thus offers an infinite choice of combinations solo or as a couple . It is not for nothing that it has already satisfied more customers in France and around the world! ⭐⭐⭐
Besides, they are the ones who speak best about the joys of having a clitoral stimulator in your vibrator collection.
I usually don't leave reviews, but....
I have to say I fell under his spell.
It is absolutely magical. Suitable for everyone! It has everything you need or need.
The vibrator part is good. But what about the suction/tapping part... great, orgasm every time 🤩
I'm addicted
- S.Not really a fan of this kind of object at first, I took the plunge and offered this for my birthday. And I have to say that Puissante really put the pedal to the metal! Coco, it's amazing, I'm discovering sensations that I didn't know! Bravo to the whole design team!
- Mr.I can't describe what I experienced better than WOW.
Coco revolutionizes female solitary pleasure. It's so soft, the design is excellent, the features are top notch!
Thank you for creating it! You can go for it with your eyes closed!
- L.
To choose this type of sex toy , we recommend that you read this article, but also ask for advice in store. You will see the products, then wait for sales or special Christmas or Valentine's Day editions to order and receive them with discreet delivery.
PS: our Coco is wearing her most beautiful red and gold outfit for the holidays! 🎄
3. A sensory massage oil
Transform your intimate moments into a sensual experience by offering massage oil to your other half.
The great thing about this kind of gift is that it's more than just a cosmetic product . It's the promise of future moments of connection together . ❤️
With each use, you can transform an ordinary evening into a sensual ritual, where touch becomesa form of language . These moments of shared relaxation will punctuate the coming months and strengthen the complicity by allowing you to slow down time to savor the present moment.
The oil can even join your slow sex moments or add magic to your Sensate Focus method moments 💆♀️.
There is a wide choice of brands, from the simplest to the most elegant, with captivating scents and bottles worthy of the greatest perfumers. You have something for all prices and all tastes. And if the choice is difficult, why not try a box set ?
To choose your massage oil, choose a clean formula that respects the skin . You can trust consumer applications like Yuka to guide you. Look for natural ingredients that nourish without weighing down, such as jojoba, sweet almond or coconut oil, and avoid artificial fragrances or chemical additives.
If you love DIY projects , why not try making your own homemade massage oil? Simply mix a base of vegetable oil with a few drops of lavender, ylang-ylang or sandalwood essential oils for a soothing and aphrodisiac touch. Be careful, however, to handle the essential oils and their dosage with care. 🍃
4. A boudoir shoot
There is nothing better to boost self-confidence and self-love than a photo shoot where our sensuality is highlighted. An intimate photo shoot, alone or as a couple , is an excellent way to rediscover your body from a new angle that you don't see on a daily basis. 📸
When choosing a boudoir photographer, it is essential to take the time to find someone you feel confident with. Many women prefer to work with a female photographer , as it can help them feel more comfortable during this intimate experience.
Don't hesitate to read reviews left by other clients and browse the photographer's portfolio to make sure their style matches your partner's expectations.
Good communication will allow you to personalize the session according to your tastes, whether you prefer glamorous, sensual or more natural poses. ✨
5. An erotic advent calendar
At Christmas, all brands now release their traditional advent calendar . The erotic sector is not left out with products full of surprises to discover every day. Whether it's sex toys, sensual cosmetics or sexy challenges to do with your partner, you're bound to find what you're looking for as the holidays approach. 🎁
The only catch is that an advent calendar is given before Christmas.
How can you recreate that delicious experience of discovering a surprise while still being able to slip a pretty package under the tree on December 25th? 😱
Powerful had a genius idea when designing its After Calendar . It can be offered for Christmas and allows you to savor the last days of the year while continuing to receive gifts day after day.
With its sophisticated and retro box and its selection of goodies to put pleasure back at the center of well-being, it is a must-have for winter 2024. ❄️
6. A subscription to an ethical porn platform
Offering a subscription to an erotic pornography platform may seem surprising at first , but it is part of an ethical approach that aims to properly remunerate industry professionals.
Unlike free sites, which are often criticized for their lack of transparency and disrespect for actors, ethical platforms work to create an environment where the consent and well-being of the people being filmed are a priority. It's a gift that helps support a more responsible and respectful approach to sexuality on screen . We'll tell you more about itright here. 🔍
Plus, offering a subscription to content is becoming more and more common, whether it's for series, podcasts or online courses. So why not extend this idea to sexy content?
As with the erotic books mentioned above, this type of gift is an opportunity to broaden one's horizons, discover new fantasies and, above all, create a space for dialogue within the couple.
By watching these films individually or together , we can discuss our desires, explore new practices and strengthen our bond through shared moments of discovery . Ultimately, all a bonus, right? 🤩
7. A case for storing your vibrators
A vibrator case is a practical and discreet gift to store your collection while extending the life of your toys. The sex toys are all gathered together, easy to find when the urge arises and protected from light and dust.
Between us, who has never lost the little carrying pouch that comes with our sex toys?
You will find pencil cases at all prices and with all possible designs. You can opt for a touch of humor, a chic pattern, pretty erotic illustrations or even a personalized model. 👝
Our blue velvet vanity case is perfect for this mission. Not only is it spacious, but its wide opening makes it easy to see and remove all its contents. In short, an elegant and functional attention that takes care of your treasures.
8. An initiation to bondage
Shibari is an ancestral Japanese art of rope tying. It highlights the aesthetics and sensuality of the bonds that envelop the body . Widely practiced in the form of bondage in BDSM , it is an art in its own right that is not attached to this aesthetic . Shibari can be practiced outside of BDSM scenes. It then becomes a game of exploration of the body and mind , a moment suspended between art and intimacy. 🪢
It's not just about restricting movement, but about creating a visual and tactile experience where each rope is carefully placed, weaving a unique connection between partners.
With an initiation you will learn which ropes to choose, the basic knots as well as all the safety precautions to take. It is an original gift idea, ideal for strengthening (literally) the bonds of trust and allows to open a real space of letting go . The person who abandons himself to the ropes entrusts his body to the other, which requires fluid communication and mutual listening.
This experience can be a very beautiful way to rediscover yourself through the touch and tension of the strings , in a reassuring and caring environment. 🥰
9. A game to explore your desires
Our latest gift idea that combines fun and sexy is a card game that allows people to talk about sexuality, break taboos and learn to discover others. We know the classic truth or dare, but for a few years now, good vibes brands have been launching new concepts inspired by positive sexuality. 👏
We love Discultons by Merci Beaucul. 170 cards to talk about sexuality in a fun and good-natured way. Whether you've been in a relationship for eight years or on a first date, whether you're a Q-plan, exclusive or polyamorous, a cis, trans or non-binary person, pan or straight, this game is for you! And why not offer it for Christmas to your partner or best friend with whom you talk about everything? An original gift idea that can also start new conversations.
In the same vein, Jouissance Club has also released its set of cards to get to know you in depth; then put it into practice by testing the most intimate gestures, fantasies, techniques and experiences for even more pleasure and why not make the desire last in your relationship. 💞
We hope that this list of gifts has inspired you to please your partner or a loved one and even yourself. Each of our suggestions is also a very nice gift to give to yourself to explore your pleasure and put some fun in your daily life . Have you found the perfect idea? Well done! We now suggest you slip into the festive holiday atmosphere with our selection of cozy Christmas films that are different from the clichés . ☕
