Finding orgasm is not always an obvious thing even during intense and maximum penetration. Sometimes, we find pleasure in caressing our clitoris or rubbing ourselves against our partner.

There are many ways to make caresses her clitoris. Some use their finger while others caress with vibrators. So what is the best way to caress your clitoris to stimulate it ?

What is the clitoris and where is it located?

When it comes to sexuality, the clitoris is the only organ entirely devoted to female pleasure among the organs in women . THE penis as well as the female sex are multifunctional and are not only dedicated to pleasure.

THE clit is located above the vagina, but below the pubis. Erectile, the clitoris is composed of two parts: one part buried in the woman's body and the other external. The visible part of the organ is called the glans and its size varies from a few millimeters to more than a centimeter depending on the female .

THE glans is covered with a hood and is very sensitive to touch. Which makes the clitoris very erogenous. The buried part of the clitoris has roots of about ten centimeters that wrap around the urethra and the vagina. The point of contact between the vagina and the clitoris is called: G-spot and is also very erogenous.

The clitoris has many nerve endings which are about three times the number found in the penis. It is mainly its nerve endings that give it its erogenous faculty. During arousal, the clitoris swells with blood and becomes more sensitive to stimulation and vibrations.

To give you orgasm , you can therefore opt for stimulations internal (at the G-spot) or external (stimulation of the glans). If you want to have maximum pleasure , you can stimulate them all. To do this, you need to apply a light caress to the clitoris while caressing the inside.

How to caress your clit with your fingers?

It is first important to know and master your body to facilitate orgasm. Thus, you are able to know what gives you pleasure first by solo . The clit prefers moisture so it is not recommended to caress it directly with a dry finger.

THE button the clitoris being very sensitive, it is necessary to show delicacy in it caressing . It is therefore essential to go slowly and start with foreplay. That is to say, caress the contours, the vagina even your breasts gradually to build up the excitement .

The more the excitement becomes strong, the more the clitoris swells with blood and becomes more erogenous. It is still not a question of touching it directly with a dry hand. You can use lubricant such as the intimate lubricating gel from our brand Puissante or a little water / saliva . You can also wait until the cyprine secretes.

Like this, you can reuse this secretion or lubricant at the level of the clitoral button by caressing it with your finger . Depending on what suits you, you can perform light caresses gradually rhythmic and faster. You can also perform strong pressures according to your convenience.

Some women prefer to use the palm of their hands, others one finger, then two or more. At the same time, instead of pressure, you can tap the clitoris and then accelerate depending on your excitement.

Instead of tapping the clitoris, you can also make small circles around the glans and the hood. Vary the caress between clockwise and counterclockwise to increase the arousal . In any case, speeding up increases the pleasure and leads you to an orgasm.

It is recommended to try several approaches to caressing. This ensures you multiple sensations. It allows you to discover what you like the most or the least and to test your limits. You can also excite the clitoris by caressing the G-spot from inside the vagina .

The inside of the vagina is erogenous with thin membranes that facilitate access to the G-spot. To start, slide a still-wet finger two centimeters on the anterior surface of the pubis. Caress, feel or lightly scratch the membrane of the vulva to notice the difference.

To increase the orgasm, you can use your second hand at the same time and to caress simultaneously the clitoris (the glans) or the breasts . Satisfaction can arise from the outside (often referred to as a clitoral orgasm ) or from the inside (referred to as a vaginal orgasm) or both.

How to use a vibrator to stimulate the clitoris?

Thanks to technological progress, the sexuality has taken on a whole new dimension. Thus, sex gadgets have been manufactured that allow you to have an unparalleled masturbation. Among these gadgets, you have vibrators.

Which vibrator to choose and how to use it?

There are a lot of vibrators, but we designed the Coco vibrator and the Toupie vibrator. They are all made in France and are adopted by a large number of people.

The Coco vibrator has two parts: a suction part and a vibrating part. The vibrating part can be used to externally caress the clitoris or other erogenous zones (breasts, lips, vulva , etc.). It can also be used for penetration to to caress inside the vagina especially the G-spot.

The suction part is non-penetrating . It emits pressure waves and is used for sucking the clitoris or breasts . Both parts are effective in giving you an orgasm worthy of the name.

In addition, the rod separating the two parts is flexible. As a result, you can use both parts simultaneously for distinct caresses. Finally, Coco has 7 intensity levels and 3 random modes. This offers you several varieties of sensations of various intensities of caress.

The Toupie vibrator, with its shape, is ideal for allowing you to explore all the erogenous zones of your body . It is easy to hold and manipulate with its ten intensity levels. You also have the possibility to combine the Coco and Toupie vibrators for unprecedented orgasms throughout your entire being.

What are the differences between your finger and a vibrator?

Being mechanical, The vibrator offers good autonomy as long as it is charged. It can give you pleasure for a long time while varying intensities and movements. It is often wrapped in a very soft and skin-friendly coating.

Unlike the vibrator, the finger is manual. It can quickly run out and above all it is not always gentle, sexy or delicate without lubricant. There are areas inaccessible to fingers, but easy to caress with the vibrator. The vibrator offers another dimension to the sexuality of a woman or a girl.

However, excessive use of the vibrator can be problematic. The body may get used to it and no longer be able to respond to manual touch, whether it is yours or that of a partner. Excessive use of the vibrator puts the discovery of your being, your sexuality and especially the progression of feelings towards orgasm.

How to create excitement when you caress yourself?

For many, it is difficult to feel excitement or even pleasure without a stimulant. Today, there are several ways to get excited. This facilitates foreplay and causes the body to secrete hormones that come into play in triggering clitoral pleasure.

As methods of arousal, you have: sex podcasts, erotic films, dramatizations, books, places related to the fantasy, etc.

Sex Podcasts

A podcast is a broadcast (file video or often audio ) immediately listenable and broadcast on the internet. A sex podcast is therefore a erotic content show allowing you to learn more about your sexuality, but also to satisfy yourself.

Preferably in the evening, once in bed, put on your headphones. Then, turn on a sex podcast and give in to the tremors in your ears. Many women are more relaxed and concerned when listening to a sexy, soothing and reassuring voice.

Let yourself be carried away to the point of feeling at the heart of the story and slowly you will feel the rise of excitement. The increasingly strong and pressing need to caress you, to play with your tongue , your fingers. You can bite your lips, lick your nipples with your tongue.

Erotic films

An erotic or porn film is a set of videos whose content is focused about sex and sometimes about love . Porn (amateur and professional) has taken an important place in cinema and especially in the heart of homes.

Porn is the most commonly used means of obtaining stimulation . These are videos often very detailed ranging from foreplay, to masturbation to sex. There are several sites porn so this kind of video is accessible from a laptop, smartphone, tablet or TV.

To stimulate yourself, choose a site porn then, put on your headphones if necessary. Choose a video that best suits your tastes and fantasies. Several categories are available. Among others, you have: young, adult, brunette, blonde, amateur, several, etc. We also talk to you about ethical porn which can also be a good way to increase excitement and an original experience to live!

You have to relax and surrender to what you see and hear. Your whole being will gradually relax and the more interesting it becomes, the more you are invaded by strong and warm sensations. Your throat becomes increasingly dry, your vagina wet, your skin shivers.

You feel more and more the need to touch yourself in a sexy way, to touch your lips, your breasts, your sex. Once the vagina is wet, the caress on your clitoris can start delicately, sensually.

Other methods

All of you have your preferences, your desires. This makes fantasies vary from one woman to another. Thus, Some girls feel arousal more quickly and intensely when making love or masturbating in new places .

These types of places can be public places, in the car, at the office, in the bar toilets, outdoors, in bed. Some groups of women and girls opt more for role-playing or scenes. Other women prefer to watch others in action or go to swingers or libertine clubs... it's up to you to see what triggers more excitement :)!

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