Once you've learned to put others before yourself, pleasuring yourself as a woman can be a Herculean challenge . It's even more challenging when you enter the sexual sphere. Between the taboos that hinder open-hearted communication, the guilt or shame associated with sex , and the lack of sex education , it's hard to fully enjoy your sex life. Good news: at Puissante we break taboos AND we give you concrete advice to increase your pleasure tenfold. In this article, we share a technique to intensify your orgasms: edging . And bonus, this method can be practiced solo or with others.

What is edging: definition of an anglicism

The term edging comes from edge in English, which means "the edge" or "the border". As its name suggests, it is a sexual practice that invites us to play with the limit of orgasm . Its goal? To multiply the feeling of excitement before reaching seventh heaven.

To explain it better, edging is based on the ability to delay orgasm and to hold back from cumming . This ability to maintain and prolong the pre-orgasm phase has the merit of propelling you towards a state of intense happiness!

In addition to increasing it tenfold, this technique also allows you to control your pleasure and understand its depths and boundaries.

Physiologically, it helps prolong the plateau phase of arousal , leading to a buildup of sexual tension and a release of endorphins and other neurotransmitters associated with pleasure.

The goal is to please yourself as much as possible and get you as close to the point of no return as possible! 😉

Then, it will be a question of stopping before cracking . Dare or not dare?

Edging is an excellent solution for the 35% of French women who say they are dissatisfied with their sex life.

It's time to take back control of your pleasure and give yourself orgasms that will make you forget your first name! 🚀

Why practice edging?

Practicing edging has many benefits that go beyond simply prolonging sexual pleasure. It is a simple method to implement, which requires no special equipment or skills and which is refined as you practice.

Learning to hold back your orgasm allows you to:

  • Understanding your body and its reactions
    We understand our reactions better and are able to control them in the long term.

  • Reduce stress
    The build-up of tension allows you to stock up on good hormones. Savor them, take your time and above all, have fun.

  • Improve mental well-being
    Edging promotes greater self-awareness and connection with your body, which can contribute significantly to your mental and emotional well-being.

As a couple , the practice of edging also offers many benefits:

  • Strengthening complicity between partners.
  • A better emotional connection where everyone takes the time to explore and savor each moment.
  • Longer reports that exceed the average of 5.4 minutes.
  • Better communication thanks to a better knowledge of your partner's body and its pleasures.

Trying edging, our best advice

Edging is a practice to experiment with solo before embarking with your partner. 🗺️

You can start by exploring your erogenous zones, then masturbate. Take the time to feel the different levels of excitement to go and meet what makes you vibrate. The idea of ​​this exploration phase is to understand the triggers that advance your pleasure and to know precisely when orgasm is not far away.

The purpose of this preparation is to allow you to sharpen your abilities to stop stimulation in time in order to delay your orgasm.

Maybe orgasm will elude you during your first attempts. Don't panic! Like any new skill and like fine wine , orgasm control is perfected with time. 😉

With his or her partner

Frustration is the key to raising the temperature. 🔥

To provoke it in your partner, you can touch him or her and then, when you have the desired intensity, suddenly stop giving it to him or her. Change erogenous zones, slow down your gestures or stop contact completely if there is trust between the two of you.

Don't be afraid to ask him or her to verbalize his or her feelings and put words to the pleasure he or she is feeling at that moment. 💬

It is important to define in advance your verbal codes to use to prevent one or the other from cracking. They will allow you to slow down the stimulation and restart the movements. You can opt for a simple and effective "Stop" . For more precision, choose a scale from 1 to 10 where 10 is the highest level of pleasure. This allows you to better manage the delay of satisfaction and amplify the enjoyment.

Edging as a couple is a great way to show trust where we allow each other to take control of our pleasure. It works in masturbation, but also in oral stimulation or with vaginal and anal penetration. This experience can also serve as a safe ground to explore domination and submission games in a fun and safe way. 🥳

The vibrator: your BFF to play with the limit of orgasm

Which vibrator to choose for edging?

If you want to take on this challenge, you will need to take the time to find out which vibrator is best for you.

We recommend the clitoris sucker , because it allows for targeted and intense stimulation. Choose a model with several speeds to accompany the rise of pleasure . Our bestseller Coco will be your best ally in this exploration. It stimulates both the clitoris while allowing you to play with penetration if you feel like it. ✨

How to use it?

First of all, be patient. The expected result can only occur after several training sessions : it requires good mastery of its handling . 🙃

The effect produced by using a vibrator on one part of your body may not be the same on that same part in another person . Don't limit yourself to stimulating the genitals with a vibrator. Dare to explore the other erogenous zones of your body. The neck, breasts , anus or even the hollow of the hips can react unexpectedly to its stimulation, 😍

Then once you get to the clitoris, take the time to increase the temperature starting from its edges, on the side or below. You can thus benefit from a more intense excitement! The most important thing is to go there with great attention to discover what really makes you happy.

Being able to regularly enjoy an explosive orgasm and a boost in your libido is the result of a series of solo explorations.

What are the risks associated with edging?

Crossing the line can raise concerns, and the internet is full of differing opinions about the potential dangers of this practice.

Edging is not without risk. It has been found that this practice can have an impact on the brain in some individuals. This negative effect begins in the preorgasmic phase, when orgasm is delayed, which leads to increased secretion of dopamine in the brain .

And yes, it is thanks to dopamine that we feel this intense sensation of sexual pleasure. 🔥

But let's get straight to the point: what is the real danger associated with the practice of edging?

The main risk is developing a form of masturbation addiction . When you get into the habit of masturbating to build up excitement before you start, your brain gets used to a strong release of dopamine . The discharge of well-being at the moment of climax can become the reference level of enjoyment.

The risk is then to associate the pleasure felt during edging as the only acceptable level . With this practice, your sexual relations may seem less pleasant than these moments of masturbation which border on ecstasy.

So be careful not to become too demanding during your group sex or during your solo sessions where you are not experimenting with edging.

Our solution? Make this technique an occasional exploration and not an automatic reflex at every intimate moment. 📅

As you can see, edging is a great technique to add to your arsenal of practices to boost your libido and increase your pleasure tenfold. Enjoy this state of fullness before and after releasing tension. Want to discover other techniques to feel good? Why not try erotic breathing techniques ? ❤️

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