Using a vibrator for the first time can be an exciting and liberating experience. It’s an investment in your well-being , and that’s important. So it’s time to put aside the preconceived ideas, myths, taboos, and guilt surrounding female pleasure . Female masturbation , long maligned, is increasingly becoming a powerful tool for self-affirmation and fulfillment for many women. This step-by-step guide will provide you with all the steps to using a toy, as well as the best tips to maximize your pleasure. It’s time to take back control of your body and enjoy the adventure of your sex life!

A short history of the vibrator

The vibrator, a tool once used primarily for medical purposes , has undergone a remarkable evolution over the decades. Initially designed to treat “female hysteria,” it quickly made a place for itself in the sexual wellness device industry, and thank goodness for that! 🤩

In the 20th century, with the arrival of electricity, the first electric vibrators were created. We think in particular of the very first vibrator: the Granville hammer . These devices were initially marketed as medical objects intended to relieve muscle tension and pain , but they quickly found their place as tools for personal pleasure.

Over time, vibrators have become widely accepted and used sex toys . They now come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and functions to suit individual needs and preferences.

The different types of vibrators

The Wand 🪄

Known for its elongated shape and rounded head , the Wand vibrator is ideal for clitoral stimulation and other erogenous zones of the body. They are generally equipped with strong vibrations specially designed to stimulate the external part of the clitoris . At Puissante, we have developed a model that serves as much to relieve tension as for pleasure: The Kiss!

The Finger 👆

These vibrators are designed to be slipped onto a finger , thus offering a different and very easy pleasure experience. With its small integrated motor , it is perfect for solo or couple games, the finger vibrator allows very precise stimulation.

The Bullet 🚀

Compact and discreet, the bullet vibrator is often used for clitoral stimulation. Its small size makes it a convenient choice for travel or discreet play in public.

The clitoris sucker 💨

Innovative and unique, the clitoris sucker uses pulsed air waves to stimulate the clitoris without direct contact.

At Puissante, we have the Coco and its little brother the Mini Coco . They both have a suction head. It stimulates the glans of the clitoris thanks to its orifice which pulses air waves and guides you towards deeper orgasms.

The Rabbit 🐇

Known for its dual action, the Rabbit vibrator stimulates both the clitoris and the G-spot. With its multiple vibration modes, it offers a complete pleasure experience.

Designed to deliver unparalleled orgasmic experiences, our in-house rabbit, the Chouchou, is much more than a simple stimulator: it is the embodiment of innovative design, advanced functionality and exquisite aesthetics. The Chouchou is also designed to adapt to all body types. It thus guarantees you optimal comfort during its use.

Choosing the right vibrator

Choosing the right vibrator is essential for a satisfying sexual experience. With the many choices of sex toys available on the market, it is important to take into account your specific desires . 😌

First, think about what types of sensations you're looking for. Sex toys come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and textures, offering a diverse range of stimulation.

If you’re looking for a deep orgasm, opt for vibrators designed for internal stimulation. Rabbit vibrators combine vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation, providing intense and multiple sensations. Pulsating vibrators mimic thrusting movements, providing a realistic feeling of penetration.

For those who prefer penetration, vibrating or non-vibrating dildos are ideal. These toys can be used for vaginal or anal stimulation, depending on your preference. Classic vibrators with an elongated and smooth shape are perfect for easy and pleasant penetration.

Whether you prefer vibration, or suction, there is a vibrator for every preference! The choice is yours.

You can also use lubricant to maximize comfort and sensations . Make sure to choose a lubricant that is compatible with your sex toy, preferably opting for a water-based formula to avoid damaging the material. At Puissante, we have created an ultra-clean formula based on water and lily extract to make your experience as pleasant as possible. 🍃

With the right vibrator, you can explore new forms of pleasure and enrich your sex life, and why not reach orgasm , even if as we have always said: orgasm is not an end in itself , take your time, the important thing is to enjoy it!

Exploring your pleasure solo

When exploring your solo pleasure with a vibrating toy, take the time to create an atmosphere that is conducive to relaxation and excitement. 🕯️

Make sure your vibrator is charged and ready to use. Then, explore different stimulation techniques to discover what feels best for you. Take the time to familiarize yourself with your body and your erogenous zones , varying positions and settings for the most enjoyable experience.

Really take the time to savor each sensation , listening carefully to your body's responses to each movement and each caress.

It is important to know your own body, to know what we like. ❤️

For this, you can use sex toys, or your hands, varying the pressures, positions (sitting, standing, lying down, etc.) and rhythms, until you find what suits you best. It's a pleasure journey, enjoy it!

Using a vibrator together?

Using a vibrator as a couple can be a rewarding experience for both partners. ✨

Exploration and mutual discovery
Using a vibrator with your partner allows each of you to discover new erogenous zones and better understand what arouses pleasure in the other. Whether it's internal clitoral stimulation, external clitoral stimulation, anal stimulation , pay attention to your loved one's reactions.

Open communication
Using a vibrator with the love of your life or a one-night stand encourages open and honest communication about each other's desires, fantasies, and boundaries. This climate of trust and mutual understanding strengthens the relationship between the two partners.

Shared pleasure and multiple orgasms
Using a vibrator can help achieve more intense and multiple orgasms, for both women and men. Who wouldn't want to have multiple orgasms in one intercourse? 🤩

Many men may see the vibrator as an enemy, but it is nothing more than an ally! A way to introduce different sensations to your partner.

⭐⭐⭐ If you are reluctant to the idea, here are some opinions from our customers that might convince you ⭐⭐⭐

“Tempted...offered...discovery...shared pleasure. Perfect for lovers”

“Awesome! Powerful pleasure, powerful orgasm, Coco lives up to its name. Alone or with someone else, it’s a top toy that provides crazy sensations. I love it! I approve 200%. Don’t hesitate, you’ll love it….”

“AMAZING! I am from a generation where masturbation is shameful and taboo. I have not yet managed to use Coco on my own, I used it with my husband and I admit to having been amazed by its effectiveness, it is very, very pleasant... I have a lot of libido problems for several reasons but let's say that the main one is endometriosis that I have had for over 20 years, this pathology has ruined my sex life. Indeed, sexual intercourse was painful and therefore complicated, I say was because 4 years ago I had a hysterectomy which allowed me to no longer suffer during intercourse but my brain remained fixed on the pain. I bought Coco on the advice of my gynecologist to help me regain my libido. For the moment it is on the right track because the novelty and effectiveness of Coco gives me more desire (let's hope it lasts). I even think that in my case, and I don't think I'm the only one, it should be reimbursed by social security."

Before introducing a vibrator into your relationship with your partner, make sure you have an open discussion about your expectations and boundaries. Consent is very important, and it is necessary to discuss it before any intercourse involving vibrators.

Whether solo or as a couple, using a vibrator is most often a fulfilling experience . By choosing the right type of vibrator according to your preferences and exploring different stimulation techniques, you can unlock new levels of pleasure, while discovering each other's bodies and pleasures. If you're wondering how to choose the right vibrator, at Puissante, we guide you from A to Z and give you all our advice on how to choose your first vibrator . 😋