The G-spot has been the subject of many debates about its true existence and beliefs about its shape and stimulation since its discovery. In this article, we explain everything about this erogenous zone. How to find it, stimulate it alone or with your partner, what sensations it will give you, and finally which vibrators to use to stimulate this pleasure zone.
What is the G-spot?
It was Ernst Gräfenberg , a German sexologist, who proclaimed his discovery in the 1950s and gave him his initial in 1981.
However, this erogenous zone that is hidden at the entrance of the vagina in women is a matter of debate between scientists and sexologists. Some tend to think that the G-spot is just a myth, but isn't it ultimately also a victim of taboos?
As a reminder, the clitoris, an organ exclusively dedicated to pleasure in women, was discovered in 1559, forgotten until 1968, and for good reason, the repression of masturbation and female pleasure! This organ exclusively dedicated to pleasure continues to be discovered and re-studied by scientists today.
If this more than erogenous zone has not finished revealing its secrets and its effects to us, scientists think that in fact the clitoris and the G-spot are the same !
To understand G-spot stimulation, you must first know that most of the clitoris actually extends internally behind the labia majora.
The scientists have also realized that there is not only the G-spot, but that in fact we are dealing with a complete G-zone.
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Anterior wall of the vagina
The inner surface of the front wall of the vagina.
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Erectile tissue
Located around the G-zone, this tissue swells with blood upon stimulation.
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Paraurethral glands or Skene's glands
These glands are located around the urethra and are sometimes associated with the G-zone.
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Urethra
The tube that carries urine from the bladder, located near the G-spot and influencing the sensitivity of the area.
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Internal branches of the clitoris
The vestibular bulbs and corpora cavernosa of the clitoris which extend deep inside, around the urethra and vagina.
While some research still doubts the existence of the G-spot, the best way to learn about its existence is to explore your body. 🧭
How to find your G-spot?
According to a study conducted by the magazine le point.fr , the G zone would be identified by only 10% of women. We are here to increase this figure and help women discover a new pleasure zone.
Masturbation will help you get to know your G-spot. It's the best way to (re)discover and get to know your body!
The best advice we can give you is to make yourself comfortable. Being alone will allow you to take your time to stimulate pleasure. With your fingers or whatever you like in the position that suits you . Don't have the primary goal of reaching orgasm directly. Instead, slip into the shoes of an explorer of what gives you pleasure. 🗺️
Masturbate as you like to do to get yourself excited! You can start by massaging your labia with your fingers to stimulate the bulbs of the internal part of the clitoris.
Then describe circles using the pressure of your fingers on the glans. When you feel ready, gently insert a finger or two in a hook shape about 2 to 5 centimeters on the anterior wall of the vagina. You will recognize the G zone by its more bumpy or rough appearance than the rest of the wall.
Every body is different, there is no specific route to get there. Its location varies from woman to woman. Trust your feelings. 😉
Still with your fingers hooked, tap while putting pressure sources in different places , until you find the area that makes you happy.
You can also make circular or lateral movements, the variations are endless ! Don't forget to lubricate, with this lube for example.💧
👉 Did you know? Men also have a G-spot (or P-spot)! It is reached through anal stimulation since it is close to the prostate.
How can you help your partner find it?
Finding your G-spot alone first gives you an advantage so you can guide your partner! But he or she can also help you find it.
Going in search of your G-zone with a partner is a great adventure. You can lie on your back, knees bent, feet flat. Then with your fingers, the procedure is the same. 👌
No good G-spot stimulation for two without fluid and honest communication . Take the time you need to talk about it, communicate your feelings, learn together and then put it into practice. Share your masturbatory discovery and explain to him what the G-spot is.
Then detail what you prefer as sensations and your favorite positions to find pleasure. And don't forget to take your time.❤️
Does the G-spot cause orgasm?
We often differentiate between "vaginal orgasm" and " clitoral orgasm ". However, as we saw above, the clitoris is linked to the vagina. These two types of mythological orgasms actually come from the clitoris!
The stimulation is simply different. Orgasm obtained by external stimulation may be easier to access for some women. The intensity of the orgasm depends on each person; some will have more sensations by stimulation of the glans of the clitoris, others by that of the G zone. 🔥
G-spot stimulation typically requires firmer pressure and precise rhythmic movement , which can take time to master. It’s also important to take the time to connect the nerves to the brain to map the sensations in this rarely visited part of the body. This can take some practice. 🏋️♀️
But let's not forget that orgasm does not only depend on the stimulation created. Your psychological state, the level of your libido , the environment you are in and your physical and mental health always come into play. There is no magic formula or secret to reaching seventh heaven. That's why it should not be the primary goal! Let yourself go without any pressure.
Special G-spot Kamasutra Positions
During your sexual intercourse with your partner(s), you can also stimulate the G-spot through penetration using the different Kamasutra positions !
Turn your back to your partner and lean forward, leaning on his legs; the proud queen will be a perfect position to stimulate this area. 👑
It is also possible to stimulate the G-spot in doggy style , since the penis thus reaches the upper part of the vagina more easily.
You or your partner can simultaneously stimulate the external part of the clitoris to promote sensations at the G-spot. Multiple stimulation is a direct elevator to seventh heaven. 🚀
Which vibrators stimulate the G-spot?
There are vibrators specially designed for G-spot stimulation . Their curved design makes it easy to reach the upper wall of the vagina.
Designed to accompany you in exploring your kiff, they are used in a gentle way. You can turn on the vibration modes or simply describe pressures thanks to rocking or back-and-forth movements with them! Some offer the activation of oscillation modes or even have a ball for more sensations. 🙂
The G-spot becomes more and more sensitive with stimulation , so don't give up!
If you are a fan of using vibrators during sex with your partner, you can use a vibrating cock ring . It is placed around the penis of the male partner and vibrates! You can also place it on your fingers. 👌
What could be better than choosing a double stimulator to intensify the pleasure? This is what Coco allows thanks to its suction part which will stimulate your clitoris and allow penetration with its vibrating part which reaches the G-spot very well . Since it is foldable, it adapts best to different body types! Thus, its versatility allows you to take some time for yourself and explore your body in different ways. 💙
After taking our first steps in discovering orgasm through clitoral stimulation, exploring your G-spot is an extraordinary new quest. To go even further in discovering your pleasure, why not sign up for the Back to Basics training which covers the fundamentals of positive female sexuality. 😘